Article written by Charly Boy...read below...
Boldly displayed in front of my house is
this signage: We Shoot To Kill. Trespassers
Will Be Violated.
Why this provocative warning? Many may
wonder, perhaps many more are careful to
hang around my property, before they get
shot for loitering, for nothing. Well, just
putting people on notice that I will violently
defend my territory at all times; just like
the dog and animals generally, pee on
objects to mark their boundaries/
territories. Yes, I don mark my territory be
dat, no messing around.
Though I have not shot anyone yet, I will not
hesitate to use extreme violence in defending
my territory if push comes to shove. Yes, I will
shoot to kill first, then ask questions later.
Yesooo.
When there is heavy rainfall, we need umbrella;
when our homes are dirty we need broom to
sweep off the dirt, and when there is unfettered
increase in crime/violence, we need weapons to
defend and protect us and our loved ones at all
times.
We all should know that we have a right to do
so; and that we not only have the right, but also
the duty to take responsibility for how we allow
others to treat us.
We need to be able to tell people when they act
in ways that are not acceptable to us; to either
shape up or you trash them. Yes, like dorty .
Setting boundaries is not about manipulation or
wanting to be a control freak. Mbanu! It is
impossible to have a healthy relationship with
someone who has no boundaries, someone who
cannot communicate directly and honestly. It’s
like playing football without a goal post on a
pitch that has no demarcation.
Learning to set boundaries is a necessary step
in learning to befriend ourselves first.
It is one's responsibility to take care of oneself,
and this is not possible if we don't first of all,
own ourselves.
Boundaries define limits; they make clear
separations between different turfs.
One of the most correct perceptions about the
CharlyBoy brand is that he won't take bullcrap
from anyone and he will speak his mind at all
times on matters/issues without fear or favour.
After all, him send anybody?
Going forward, we need to start becoming
aware of what healthy behavior and acceptable
interaction dynamics are, before we can start
practicing them ourselves and before we start
demanding the proper treatment from others,
abi? We need to start learning how to be
emotionally honest with ourselves, to start
owning our feelings, and to communicate in a
direct and honest manner.
It is important to say our feelings out loud; by
so doing, we are affirming that we have a right
to feelings. Emotions do not define us, they are
a form of internal communication that help us
to understand ourselves and a vital part of our
being, as a component of the whole.
It is vital to own your own voice, to own your
right to speak up for yourself. There is no time
to be weak and not live. Find your own method
to tell people shut the fuck up and they
would. Shey you dey hear?
Mark your boundaries, don't let people shit all
over you or use you as door mart.
Enough of the nonsense, people taking
advantage of people, fire burn dem .
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