possibly dangerous–if you both parties haven’t
warmed up properly. We know you are
desperate to get to the good stuff, but foreplay
can be good, too.
If you take the time and make the right moves,
you will find yourself loving the pre-game as
much as you do the grand finale. However,
there is more to foreplay than first, second, and
third bases. We spoke to real women to find
out how to make foreplay creative and exciting,
and what moves really get her going.
1. Talk to Me
I love a dude who can communicate during
foreplay. Moaning and groaning is cool, but dirty
talk is fun for both parties and typically you end
up getting more/less of what you actually want
in the bedroom when you can be vocal about it
in a playful way. It’s a great way to get me
going. –Kelly, 26
2. Pay Attention to the Twins
It sucks when they don’t spend enough time on
breasts. Most men seem more than happy to
spend a good amount of time on other foreplay
activities and areas, but they kind of just see
the boobs, give them a quick once over, and
then move on, rarely to return. It’s very sad.
Give them more loving, we like it! –Jessica, 26
3. Be Gentle
I’ve had a few just dive right in and try to just
click away on my clit like it’s a computer
mouse–like first thing, before I’m even
undressed. One guy got so rambunctious with
his fingers that I felt like I was hooking up with
Jack the Ripper. Relax, guys, it’s a turn on. –
Stephanie, 28
4. Undress Me
The act of undressing a person is in itself a
type of foreplay. To me, it is the hottest part of
being intimate with someone. Needless to say,
when a guy is too excited about the end result
that I end up taking my own clothes off in
haste, it is a little disappointing. –Selina, 29
5. Put Your Tongue Back in Your Mouth
Tongue is fun and can be very verrrry sexy but
too much tongue is nasty. And this goes for
tongue engagement across all body parts…
mouth (kisses are meant to involve lips and
tongue…not tongue only…don’t need to know
what you ate for dinner…and lunch), ears (this
also can be sexy but has the potential to go
very wrong and make me feel like you’re trying
to clean out my ears with your tongue), neck
(neck kisses are wonderful but please don’t
slobber all over me like a dog or leave hickeys
post middle school…I have to go to work with
that) and lastly lady parts (very important…
tongue is crucial but needs to be utilized
correctly). –Kelly, 26
6. Take Your Time
If I am not thoroughly warmed up, the sex
won’t be good for anyone. In fact, it might hurt.
Just be in the moment and enjoy all the fun
fooling around. The good stuff will come
(literally). –Justine, 30
7. Use Both Hands
So if you are using a hand down there, you still
have another free hand. Either go for the boobs,
another part of my privates, or even just caress
me somehow. Don’t be lazy. –Megan, 25
8. Multi-Task
Nothing is more awkward then when a guy is
fingering me and just like hovering over me and
staring at me. Kiss me! I don’t care where, but
don’t just lie there creepily. What is so difficult
about doing those two things at the same
time? –Sara, 32
9. Enjoy My Get-Up
If I’m wearing something lacy, it’s for you. And
if you don’t notice it, I wasted completely good
underwear and a day in an uncomfortable bra
for no reason. Don’t be in such a rush that you
missed how hot I look in my lingerie. Take a
second to take it all in, you might not get to
see it ever again. – Kristin, 30
10. Nibble a Little
The key word here is nibble. Do not by any
means treat my skin like beef jerky. But a soft,
light bite on my ear, nipple, lip, or neck is so
hot. However, this does not apply to my
downstairs area. –Angie, 27
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